Most men are lumped into the category of either bad boy or a nice guy. Truth is; the ideal man walks a fine line between the two. Until men learn how to do this, more often than not, women will at first choose the bad boy. By the time she realizes that the bad boy’s bad qualities outweigh his good ones the nice guy has been snagged by someone else.
This usually goes without saying. Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? Of course, there are always exceptions to every rule, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot.”
Bad Boys wouldn’t be able to pull off half the antics they do if they weren’t brimming with confidence. They aren’t just confident around their friends or colleagues either; they give off a confident aura to both strangers and people they know. Women flock to that type of confidence. No matter how you slice it, women find confidence in a man a major turn-on.
Bad boys just simply don’t give a damn. They can take it or leave it. That’s one reason they do so well with women. The bad boy tries to talk to a woman and she has already been down that road with a bad boy and says no thanks. In the bad boy’s mind, he thinks “sucks for you”. Bad boys know that nothing is 100 percent so when they strikeout it doesn’t hurt their physique, they just move on to the next woman with the same devil-may-care attitude.
Bad boys are always testing the boundaries and pushing the envelope when it comes to their life – and for a while women can’t get enough of it. They find it intriguing, and they may need some adventure to spice up their perceived mundane lives. Nice guys are not looked at as adventurous or exciting but predictable. Predictability is not a trait usually found in a bad boy.
5. No Commitment
If a woman is not ready to commit to a relationship, she subconsciously knows she can avoid any true commitment with a bad boy. She knows she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and she may not be ready to take that path. She probably won’t have to have that conversation with a bad boy.
6. Challenging and Mysterious
Bad boys can be hard to read and women like a challenge. Women don’t want a man who is a pushover. They don’t like men that they can see coming a mile away. The challenge of being the one to tame their bad boy is tantalizing though often a fool’s errand.
Women feel a nice guy won’t be able to deliver in bed. They believe a bad boy will take control and get the job done right. Perception is not always reality.
8. Too Good To Be True
Bad Boys seem to always “keep it real”. Nice guys seem like they are always trying too hard to be nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint or a faker; women instinctively don’t trust too nice. Nice guys don’t want to rock the boat. Bad boys not only rock the boat, they jump into the water.
Bad boys are often rugged, buff and in-control. That doesn’t mean controlling; they just know how to get what they want. They speak clearly and confidently, they look you in the eye, they are passionate about what they believe in and what they want. Of course, unless the bad boy is a lumberjack he might be spending a lot of time in the gym to maintain his buff exterior.
From the beginning of time women have always looked at men as protectors both physically and financially. Because of the confidence that they exude bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women far better than the nice guy. Once again perception is not always reality.
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