Ladies, isn’t it devastating to date a man who promises you the world but leaves you twisting in the wind once you give it up? It’s even worse when you are not doing so well financially. The good news is that you don’t have to curl up in bed and cry or sit in front of the TV and eat a whole tub of ice cream to drown out your sorrows. Here are ten things you can do to improve your chances of being successful, not only in your relationships, but in life.
1. Stay away from novelettes
The problem with ladies is that we are sometimes brainwashed by Novelettes. We want a man who is six feet tall, has a six pack, is handsome, witty, sexy, intelligent, can read our minds and is rich. There is no such guy in this life so ladies you need to be a little realistic when choosing your men.
Now, this doesn’t mean that you need to lower your standards; it just means you need to stop looking for the perfect guy because he doesn’t exist.
2. Get your life in order
Men can tell when your life is a complete mess. Most men will run away from you as fast as they can because they are not about to deal with your drama. Here’s the thing about having your life in order… you focus on the right things, and you are happier.
You won’t carry excess baggage into your next relationship or your next job. If you have ever had to deal with a man who carried baggage from his previous relationship, then you know what it feels like.
3. You are what you attract
So you think you don’t deserve that high paying job even though you have the skills? You probably don’t because you only believe you attract low paying jobs with a low skill set. So you think you don’t deserve the good looking alpha male you’ve been eying all night? You probably don’t because you think you only deserve the ugly, lazy man who has no future ahead of him.