Do you ever feel taken for granted by the man in your life? Maybe he doesn’t seem excited to hear from you anymore. Maybe he takes longer and longer to reply to your texts. If this is happening in your relationship, it might be time to reevaluate how your actions are making him value you a little less. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you anymore, but it does mean he’s been conditioned to know that you’ll always be there when he needs you. Here are three ways to get the man in your life to value you again.
1. Be unavailable sometimes
If you’re available to talk the second your boyfriend calls or texts you, he will begin to expect this. He will contact you at any time of the day or night when it’s good for him because he knows you will reply. This is a pattern that you’ve created, which shows him that his time is more valuable than yours. To remind him that you’re a busy woman with her own life as well stop replying to texts immediately. You don’t have to wait hours before replying, but stop replying within seconds of his text. This isn’t about playing games, but simply reminding him that he doesn’t have you at his beck and call.
2. Don’t put up with disrespectful behavior