So you’ve found out that your guy is cheating and tracked down his side chick. Now you have to decide whether or not you should confront the other woman or should you just leave it alone and deal with your guy? It’s a hard choice for some women who instinctively would want to confront the side chick to see what her side of the story is, but should you risk confronting her?
Here are a few reasons why you should simply deal with your cheating partner and leave his side chick out of it:
- It can make the situation worse
If you confront the side chick, it can actually make the whole situation worse than it already is. You never know what type of woman she is and can be adding fuel to the fire and create an entirely bigger mess of your already messy relationship. She might be instigating and can really put a wrench in the whole situation.
- You can’t trust what she says
The side chick might be a shady b*tch, so you can’t really trust what she says. Your partner might say it only happened once, but she might create some huge lie and tell you it was more just because she wants him all to herself. You never know what her motives are so she can’t really be trusted.
- You might lose your cool and fight