Getting married is a serious decision. Deciding to propose to someone is not something that anyone should take lightly. If you have been dating your boyfriend for a while and wonder when you might get a proposal, this article outlines four reasons you might not be seeing that ring anytime soon.
1. You nag
Men do not like to be nagged, I know they bring a lot of it on themselves but no one likes being constantly told what to do. If you’re a nag and expect to receive a proposal, you might find yourself waiting a long while. You may actually find yourself without a boyfriend if you are a horrible nag. Remember that your boyfriend is a grown man who can take care of himself and the things around him. He might not do it in your time or in your way, but if he’s a trustworthy and responsible man, you shouldn’t need to nag him. If he’s not a responsible man and you’re trying to train him, is he really the kind of man you want to be with?
2. You’re too clingy
It isn’t just men who need their space. Women can benefit from time alone and time with friends as well. Just because you’re a couple doesn’t mean that you need to spend every second of the day together. If you trust your boyfriend and are secure in yourself, you should have no trouble with him going out the his friends. If you’re clingy because your boyfriend is your only friend, it’s time for you to either find new friends or reconnect with old friends. Seek out activities or hobbies that interest you without involving your boyfriend. Your boyfriend doesn’t want to become your husband knowing that you rely on him for friendship and entertainment.
3. You are high-maintenance
Being high-maintenance is not a good quality. Men know that high-maintenance girlfriends will become high-maintenance wives. If you want the finer things in life and expect him to cover those expenses, you probably won’t see a marriage proposal any time soon. It is easier for a boyfriend to say “no” to your every demand, but once you are married and sharing money and credit cards he knows he will be on the hook for anything you decide to purchase. When you legally combine money, the stakes become much higher than when you are simply dating.
4. You are immature
Being young at heart and immature are two very different qualities. Being young at heart means feeling younger than you are. You have the energy and attitude of someone who loves life. If you are immature, you don’t consider the feelings of others, you might not want to get a job, clean up after yourself, and you may whine when you don’t get your own way. These are not qualities a man will be eager to marry. It’s important that you act like a mature woman who can take care of herself and her responsibilities. No one wants to baby-sit the person they are going to marry.
It’s important to remember that who you are as a girlfriend determines whether your boyfriend will or will not propose. While some behaviors are okay to put up with when you are a girlfriend, they may not want in a wife.
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