As a woman, it’s important to be aware of how your texting habits come across to others. You always want to be yourself, but you might be inadvertently sending out signals you don’t intend to. Here are four texting habits that might be ruining your chances of getting the man you want.
1. You initiate all texts
You think that sending a “good morning” text every day will show him how much you care and put you in the forefront of his mind, but what it really does is show him that you’re always thinking about him. If you’ve just started talking to a man via text, you don’t want to appear too eager for his attention. By spending too much of your time texting him he will get the impression that you don’t have a life and are now using him to fill it.
When you do initiate a conversation with the man you’re interested in, don’t be mundane. Tell him something that will pique his interest. Tell him about the course you just signed up for or the fitness class you finished. More often than not though let him text you first. This is a good way to know whether he’s interested in you or not. A man who is interested will text you, but doesn’t necessarily mean he will text you first thing every morning. It’s important to be patient.
2. You play games