4 Tips For Improving Your Self-Respect

Most of us believe that we love and respect ourselves, but is that what the outside world sees? If you allow people to treat you badly, take advantage of you, constantly belittle you, or lack confidence in yourself, you are not as self-respecting as you think. This article lists four ways you can start respecting yourself more immediately.

1. Speak up

Sometimes we have to use our outside voices inside to make sure we are heard. If something bothers you speak up! If someone does something you don’t like, you have to tell them, otherwise they will think the behavior is acceptable, and it will continue. Let them know in an assertive tone that you will not tolerate being treated badly. They will either respect you for speaking up or call you a bitch and leave you alone. Either way you win.

2. Let people go

There is no reason to keep people in your life who disrespect you and treat you badly. Even if you must have contact with someone because of a custody settlement or a work situation, there are ways to minimize physical contact and once again speak up. If you have to have contact with someone make sure they understand you will NOT tolerate disrespect. Don’t give someone the opportunity or allow them to bash or make you feel miserable.

3. Don’t settle

Not settling for less than you want is one of the greatest ways you can respect yourself. If you want something, go get it. If it’s not available right now, wait for it. Don’t settle for a mediocre version because you think that’s all you will get. Anything worth having is worth working hard for and waiting a little longer to have. Don’t let anyone try to convince you that you dream too big, want too much, or don’t deserve what you desire.

4. Take care of yourself

If you are always putting everyone else’s needs before yours, or neglect your mind and body, YOU are disrespecting yourself. Think about it, if you are not mentally or physically in tuned how will you be able to care properly for someone else. Set aside time just for you, even if it’s just thirty minutes a day. Do something that you love to do. When you feel and look your best, this is a huge sign that you respect yourself and your confidence level will soar. Remember, it’s not selfish to “do you”, it’s essential.

It’s not easy to become assertive if you have always let people push you around. However, if you follow the above tips, you will start showing not only yourself but the world that respect is a requirement in your life. You will not only feel good about yourself, but you will eliminate a lot of unnecessary drama from your life.


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