It’s very important to notice red flags when you’re dating someone new. Dating is the time in your relationship when you decide whether it’s a good idea to move forward or not. This article outlines 5 red flags that all men should be in the lookout for when dating someone new.
- She blames all her breakups on her exes
If the woman you are dating blames all of her breakups on her exes, this is a red flag. No one is perfect, and if she claims that she has never been at fault for her breakups, she may she herself as never making any mistakes. This kind of woman can be difficult to deal with because she always wants to be right. The fact that she is even talking with you about why all of her past relationships ended can be seen as a red flag, unless you actually asked for details about them.
- She is always available
If every time you text your girlfriend, she answers within seconds, this is a red flag. Why is she always answering so fast? A woman who always answers texts or phone calls right away appears to have nothing else going on in her life. A woman who doesn’t have her own hobbies, friends, or job may expect you to keep her entertained. If you want a woman who has a life outside of you, this should be seen as a warning sign.
- She gets suspicious if you don’t answer texts quickly enough
Expecting immediate responses to texts is a red flag because people cannot always answer right away and you shouldn’t be made to feel that you’re doing something wrong. If she accuses you of cheating or doing something fun without her, she has a trust issue that you shouldn’t have to cater to. If she gets upset when you’re at work and don’t reply quickly, this is a major red flag. She can’t understand or doesn’t want to understand that work comes first. This kind of woman is very unreasonable.
- She vents to you constantly
If you’re dating a woman who is constantly venting to you, this is a red flag because she will probably not stop any time soon. Some people naturally vent and complain a lot and they don’t see how it affects other people. She may vent to you about people you don’t even know. You can try to offer her advice, but people who complain a lot don’t really want solutions. Having solutions would mean she has less to complain about. It’s hard to believe, but some people really do enjoy the attention they get from complaining about others.
- She expects you to pay for all dates
A woman who doesn’t offer to pay for dates may be a woman you don’t want to be date. Some women still expect men to pay for everything and some men want to pay for everything. If you are not the kind of man who wants to pay for all dates or simply can’t afford to, this is a red flag for you. This is a new age of dating and it’s acceptable for women to pay for dates now and then.
Dating is an important stage in a relationship. It’s your chance to get to know the woman and decide whether she’s right for you. Don’t take red flags lightly when you notice them. They are important warning signs. by: aprilaragam