Starting a new relationship is never easy but there are certain things that some woman do that can hinder the development of a successful relationship. If you are doing any of the following, you might want to rethink your actions.
1. Expecting him to chase you
In a romantic movie, this thinking would probably workout for you, but in real life not so much. First, the man you wish to date doesn’t really know you yet. He knows that he is attracted to you but not what you are truly about. He knows that he would like to get to know you better, but I doubt that he is willing to jump through hoops to do it. Second, good men don’t like playing games and want to date someone who doesn’t need to “test” them to satisfy some underlying need or their ego. The best way to ensure that you will be sitting home Saturday night is to continue to expect men to chase you.
2. Expecting him to read your mind
Men who have been married for years have a hard time knowing what their wives are thinking or feeling. So how do you expect someone you just started dating to be able to read your moods or nonverbal expressions? Don’t dismiss someone offhand because they were not able to understand exactly what you wanted from the “look” you gave them. We all express and interpret things differently, so if you don’t want to be misunderstood, verbally express your wants or need. Your date will appreciate you even more for being able to communicate your thoughts and desires.