It’s a pretty common complaint that a lot of women seem only to attract jerks and losers, but they don’t know why.
The answer is not quite as simple as you being some sort of jerk magnet, though, but more that you might accidentally be self-sabotaging yourself without even realizing it.
Not to fear, all of these reasons are completely fixable. Here are five reasons why you attract jerks:
1. You don’t like your reflection.
Self-confidence really is very sexy.
But if you don’t like how you look in the mirror, you’re going to be giving off that vibe subconsciously with people that you meet.
Change, baby. If you are upset about some aspect of your appearance, emotional life, job, family or anything else, do the work to change it. Work on building your confidence. Work on letting your past go so that you can move happily into a fresh and clean future. Time and energy spent on self-improvement is always worth it — after all, that’s why you are here right?
2. You’re unhappy, and you go out of your way to make sure people know it.
If you’re unhappy with your life and instead of doing something to actively change it for the better, you constantly complain about it to others, the negative vibe you give off will just naturally attract more negativity. You may end up staying in bad relationships because you think it’s better than being single.