A first date can be crucial to determining if a second date will happen. You don’t want to be overly critical on the first date, but you do want to be able to spot red flags. Here are five red flags that might indicate you’re on a date with a loser.
1. It’s obvious he lied about himself
If you met a man online and he claimed to be 6 foot one, but shows up and is well below the six foot mark and fifty pounds heavier than he claimed, you may have met a loser. People lie because they have things to hide. While you may find nothing wrong with the ways he looks, the fact that he lied tells a lot about his character.
2. He discusses all the disappointments in his life
If he talks about all of the disappointments in his life one after another, he might be a loser. Someone who has good things to talk about will generally choose to talk about those things rather than the bad. A loser is more likely to not only discuss all the problems of his life, but also have a laundry list of people that are to blame for his lack of success.
3. He gushes about how lucky he is you chose him
If your date goes beyond complimenting you and gushes about how lucky he is that you have chosen him to date, you might be dating someone who is very desperate and maybe be considered a loser. People who are overly affectionate and rush into declaring you a couple when they barely know you, are considered to be losers. While it might be flattering to hear about much your date admires you, it’s important to remember that he barely knows you and most of the things he’s saying about you are things he can’t know.
4. He talks a lot about his online gaming
It’s fine if he mentions his online gaming when talking about his hobbies, but if he goes on and on about it, this might mean that he spends way too much time in front of his computer defending his city from invaders. If he tells you that he needs to get home early so that he can check on his city and make sure it hasn’t been plundered, you are on a date with a loser.
5. He treats wait staff poorly
A man who treats waiters and other service people poorly, is not a good man. It doesn’t matter how successful he is, he has no right to act as though anyone else is below him. If he acts rude, makes demands, or complains about every little thing, you may have met a loser. You want a man who is kind to and thanks people who are waiting on him.
If you spot what you think are signs of a loser, it’s important that you don’t ignore them. These aren’t little things such as nervousness that will subside over the next few dates. Red flags are things that you need to be cautious about because they can tell you what life with this person will be like. So if you want to avoid the losers and find someone tuned in to only you, check out this video presentation.