If you you’re interested in a man, but you can’t seem to pin down exactly where you stand with him, this may be because you’re being strung along. If you’re being strung along, it means that a man is keeping you around for when he wants to talk or be intimate. When he doesn’t want something, he’s hard to get hold of. Here are five signs that you are probably being strung along.
1. He can’t find a second to text you
We are all busy with our lives. We have work, errands to run, and family and friends to keep in touch with. If a man is truly interested in you, he will will find a second in his day to check in. If he rarely texts you good morning, goodnight, or to ask how your day is going, you’re probably being strung along. He may have a handful of women that he’s stringing along and he simply rotates through the group. He might not be able to keep in touch hourly, but a man who likes you will find the time give you a call or shoot you a text.
2. He’s vague about where he’s been
If the man you’re interested in finally does decide to text or call you, but says nothing about where he’s been or what he’s been doing, this may be a sign that you’re being strung along. He feels no need to mention where he’s been for the past few days, weeks, or even months. You might not be expecting a detailed account of where he’s been, but when he avoids telling you his whereabouts, this becomes suspicious. People usually like to share what they’ve been doing with someone they like.