Boredom in a relationship is a common occurrence over time, but relationships don’t have to become routine and boring. It’s your habits in the relationship that make it boring or exciting. This article outlines five things that you might be doing to cause boredom in your relationship.
1. You’re always available
If your boyfriend texts or calls you and you answer within seconds every time, you are not creating any mystery in your relationship. It’s great that you want to spend so much time with your boyfriend whenever you can, but always being available takes away some of the excitement. If you’re involved in another activity when he texts, reply when you’re finished.
2. You’re in a rut
If you and your boyfriend have been seeing a movie every Saturday night for a few months, you might be in a rut. It’s easy to keep doing the same thing, but it doesn’t spice up your relationship. Suggest doing something new on an evening when you’d normally see a movie. Get tickets to see his favorite band play or to watch your hockey team take on his hockey team.
3. You’re shy in the bedroom