You like being in a relationship but there’s a huge problem. All the guys you date start out as funny, smart, intelligent and really caring. But somewhere along the road things start getting boring and you don’t know why. Well, maybe it’s because you are a new relationship junkie. Below are 6 signs that you could be one.
- You get easily bored with relationships
You don’t like getting comfortable in relationships. There’s something about being in a new relationship that’s exciting. There’s a little adventure and fun to it. You discover new things about each other. You explore all these new places together. But once the honey-moon phase of the relationship begins to fade you start getting bored. There’s nothing your partner will do that you haven’t already experienced. The relationship becomes monotonous and no matter how much you try to mix things up a little bit you can’t get satisfied.
- You want to be stuck in the honeymoon phase
The honeymoon phase is the most exciting part of any relationship. You spend nearly all your time together and the sex is also good. You don’t argue and your man goes the extra mile to please you and keep you happy. The moment the honeymoon phase is over things start getting real. Your man’s true character starts showing. All of a sudden you discover he hates showering everyday and would rather do it once a week. Or you discover he likes his stake medium rare while you like yours well done. You start questioning what you had in common. And all these flaws that he has? You can’t deal with them.
- You require a lot of attention
You like being your man’s center of attention. You like it when he notices you changed your hair or you bought a new outfit. The compliments, flattery and attention just keep you floating on cloud nine. But the moment he stops giving you all this attention you become frustrated. You start looking for attention elsewhere.
Now, ladies, there’s nothing wrong with wanting a little bit of attention from your man. Lord knows we could always use it when we are having a bad day. But here’s the deal; you can’t depend too much on it. It just shows you are a sad, insecure woman and no matter how much attention he gives you, he will never be able to fill that void that makes you constantly seek for validation and fulfillment.
- You bolt when things start getting serious
The idea of being in a long term relationship isn’t your cup of tea because it means long term commitment. Everybody knows being in a long term relationship means you have to solve your problems together, get into arguments from time to time and you basically can’t do whatever you want. To you this isn’t the sort of thing you are ready for right now and you don’t think you will ever be. New relationships are easy. You don’t have to do so much. In fact, you don’t have to invest so much emotion and dedication. Now that’s the sort of thing you are into.
- You have no problem getting in and out of relationships
So you argued over who should have the last piece of bacon in the morning. To you that’s grounds for breaking up. He came with the cheddar cheese instead of mozzarella. That’s grounds for breaking up. The point here is that it’s easy for you to quit a relationship than it is for you to stay in one. A little conflict, a little disagreement and you are out the door looking for another relationship.
By the way, when you think about it, you also have no problem getting in and out of relationships with your friends. The moment you get into a conflict with your friend it’s always easier for you to drop them rather than address your issues.
- You like leading men on
You have no problem leading a new guy on even if you are not interested in him. You like the adrenaline rush of flirting with someone new who is into you.
If you relate to any one of these signs listed here, then you are a relationship junkie. Most relationship junkies are emotionally unavailable and are basically commitment phobes. When a guy drops the M word (marriage), the next thing he hears is the sound of you speeding off in your car. written by: Jackline K.
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