Okay, so maybe it’s not your fault he’s cheating but aren’t you the one encouraging the cheating? If you were this self-respecting woman you claim to be, you would tell this guy to go home to his wife and handle his shit at home.
He doesn’t want us to go out because he likes spending time indoors
He doesn’t like restaurant food. Who knows what they put in it? You want to go out to the movies? He is really not a movies guy but he doesn’t mind cuddling on the sofa with you to watch a rerun of the Sopranos. Well, if you believe this B.S not only are you blind but you are stupid. He doesn’t want to go out because he doesn’t want people to see him with you.
No one will love me the way he does
If he truly loved you, he wouldn’t be keeping you as his mistress. And if you truly think he is the only guy that will love you this much then you need to get out more and meet new people. And work on your self-esteem while you are at it.
Affairs can be very damaging to everyone involved including you. Stop telling yourself that you’re different or he loves you. Deep down you know that’s a load of bullshit. Respect yourself enough to stop the affair because obviously he doesn’t respect you, his, wife or himself enough to do it. -Lisa P.