Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship that was really bad but you were willing to find every reason to stay? Don’t lie, we’ve all been there and you are probably in that situation right now. If you are making any of these excuses, then you are probably dating the kind of person you should be running away from.
- He Is Good In Bed
Really? Since when did sex become a reason to hold on to a bad relationship? And, do you want to be that girl who is desperate enough to bribe her man with sex in order to make him stay? This is a terrible reason to stay in a relationship no matter how good he is in bed. What if the sex becomes boring? Oh yes, it sometimes does especially when there is nothing else good about your relationship. At the end of the day, without the sex, you really have nothing to make your relationship stronger. Find someone you have something in common with other than sex.
- He Is Financially Stable
Unless you were looking for a “sugar daddy”, money should not make you stay in a relationship that’s making you unhappy. And by the way, it’s never a good idea to get into a relationship when you are not financially stable. It makes you dependent on the man and he will start seeing you as a liability. We all know that financial dependency is among the top reasons why many relationships fail.
- You Have Kids Together
Okay, so you got knocked up and you feel obliged to stay with your boyfriend because you want your kids to grow up with a father. Here’s the deal: you are not obliged to stick around even if you have kids together. How are you going to properly take care of your kids if you are not happy? Always take care of yourself first and the rest will fall in place.
- He Loves You So Much
Yes, he loves you but if you don’t love him there’s no need to string him along. Let him find someone who genuinely loves him. Don’t be selfish.
- You Don’t Want To Hurt Him