After months (or years) of dating and life as a couple, your guy has finally popped the question and put that ring on your finger. Since then your life has been a whirlwind of dress fittings, premarital counseling and wedding planning. As the big day ticks closer, things get more and more exciting, and it is easy to ignore some warning signs. If your guy displays any of the following, you might want to give the marriage a second thought.
#1. You Do Not See Eye to Eye Financially
Problems with money are a common cause of divorce, so it is important that you and your fiancé be on the same page financially. If you are a saver and he a spender, things could get rocky pretty quickly. Do yourself a favor — pick a time and have an honest discussion about finances long before the wedding.
#2. You Want Kids and He Doesn’t (or Vice Versa)
When he popped the question, you immediately started picking out decorations for the nursery. Before you start planning the birth, you better make sure your future husband shares your love of children. Unless you both want kids, you could be setting yourself up for a big disappointment and a quickie divorce.
#3. You Catch Him Cheating
If you cannot trust him before the wedding, how can you trust him afterward when things get rocky? If you catch your partner cheating before the marriage, you still have time to bail and find someone who knows how to be faithful.
#4. He Has a Porn Addiction