Don’t Forget Them to Get Over Them

Remember them.

There are two major reasons we struggle to forget someone.

1. We truly believed they were the one.

2. We’re afraid that we won’t find anyone better.

However, there are two things we should remember:

1. If someone is the one, they’ll come back into our lives no matter how far we may drift apart.

2. There’s always someone better for you. Or, rather, someone just as good who will love and respect you.

That feeling when someone you loved has so quickly moved on without you can be truly soul-crushing. Instead of forcing yourself to forget them, I want you to be free to remember them.

Remember them when you’re alone at night, remember the pain, remember how you cried so hard you couldn’t breathe, and remember how you hid your eyes with sunglasses so no one can see how badly you were taking the breakup.