It is easy for a girl to assume that her man is a wanderer, that he is fickle and as or more easily distracted by the allure of new relationships than he thinks a woman can be. This, however, is nothing more than a reverse-stereotype and not true. In reality, guys are no different from the gals when it comes to having a variety of needs to stay happy in a relationship.
The guys, just like the girls, need attention, affection, and some randomization to go with some nicely established routines. It’s all in recognizing the needs that make a relationship work and making the sacrifices to see them through.
A man wants to be with a girl who is, first and foremost, desirable. No, this does not mean a beauty queen. It means a girl who respects herself as well as him and displays a certain element of vulnerability. Be too independent and he’ll run the other way, but be needy, clingy, and not independent enough and he’ll hightail it all the same.
What are some ways a girl can keep her man interested? Follow these simple points and you’ll likely find your man cuddling more than ever before.
#1. Work on Being More Spontaneous:
Studies show that people don’t generally like surprises, but a “random act of affection,” a nice admonition or compliment, a short and unplanned romantic trip, or a surprise favorite dish cooked to his liking can shock and awe your man to no end. Keep him on his toes and never be too predictable. Keep planning and make it a regular priority to invest in fishing out the unexpected. If he’s worth his salt, he’s doing the same for you (or maybe he will be when you begin to show more initiative in this yourself). The level of energy you put into the relationship is an indication of what you will get out of it.
#2. Work on Smelling Great All The Time: