I was casually seeing a guy, then I got pregnant. He stopped seeing the other girl he was more serious about to support me during my pregnancy but never committed to me. He told me he would always be there for me and that he was really attracted to me. But he also said he wanted to be sure we would work if we were ever to pursue a relationship.
I wanted a commitment from him, so for months I kept pushing him about his feelings for me. We would be okay for a while and then I would freak out about where the relationship was going. I could see that it was affecting him in a negative way.
Finally, I decided I was going to live in the moment and just enjoy where we were and hope that would give us a good chance to get to the next level. So I did, and we had two really great months where we just got on so well. He treated me how I would want to be treated, as if I was his girlfriend. We spent a lot of time together and had fun and were even physical. No freak outs on either side!