Relationships often fall apart in the absence of an effort to nurture it. When you start taking your partner and your relationship with him or her for granted, you sow the seeds of an eventual break-up. But are break-ups the final answer, or the ultimate conclusion, of what was once a promising relationship? Far from it. Your relationship with your ex can be resurrected to endure a lifetime if the two of you are willing to work for it. The question, then, is how you go about your goal of getting back with your ex.
Thinking through and acting upon the following course of action would put you on a surer footing as you embark on your journey.
· Do you really want him/her back? It is critical that you be unflinchingly honest with yourself in answering this question. If you are seeking out your ex for superficial and frivolous reasons, chances are it’ll blow up in your face.
On the other hand, when you introspect seriously and figure out genuine reasons to get back with your ex, your words and actions will be imbued with sincerity and purpose. You will be able to face your ex confidently, and communicate your wishes and desires openly, genuinely, calmly and above all, lovingly.