Mr. Not So Right

So you have finally found “Mr. Right.” Your soulmate, but not so fast.

Just when you start to think you are the luckiest girl in the world, and he has won your heart, Mr. Right reveals that he is married. He assures you it’s just a formality and that a divorce is pending. He and his wife just have to work out some details first.

You are hurt. You feel foolish and betrayed but against your better judgment he talks you into giving your relationship a try.  After all, you have never met a man who is so affectionate towards you. He knows the right things to say, and he makes you feel good about yourself. Besides, he will be a free man soon.

So you rationalize the situation and tell yourself that there is no way something that feels this good could be wrong, that you were meant to be together.

Unfortunately, this type of situation happens far too frequently. Many times, these men turn out to be serial cheaters, meaning that they have become highly astute in concealing signs of their marriage.   They know just what to do and say to get women hooked.  They portray themselves as single and seem to have a lot of free time on their hands.

The one thing in life that you must learn is to love and respect yourself enough not to put up with this kind of betrayal. Any man who would deceive you like this is definitely not worthy of your love and affection. Once you learn of his deceit, you have to be strong enough to walk away.