Simple, you’re doing all the chasing. Many men lose interest fast when the woman does most of the chasing. Now before you say, “I never chase a man!” are you doing any of the following?
You’re always available for him – it seems like you don’t have a life of your own. Men start to wonder if you have any interests or friends outside of him if you are always available, no matter when or what time he calls.
You call him first – Yes I know it’s the twenty-first century but at least give him a chance to make the first move.
You ask him out and plan all your dates – If you never give him a chance to come up with date ideas, a man will start to feel like you want to control the relationship.
You PAY for your dates – or at least most of them. You believe you are showing your independence, he might think you are a control freak or rubbing your success in his face. So unless he is a user he will start to feel his masculinity called into question.
You ask him questions like, “are we a couple, or where is this relationship going?” If you’ve only been dating for a short amount of time, these questions will start to scare him off. You need to take some time to really get to know each other before you start labeling your relationship.
If you’re guilty of any of the above, then sorry – you’re chasing. And it’s the reason why men lose interest with you very quickly! There is no mystery about you, you might even start to seem desperate.
Most guys prefer to do the chasing, from the beginning of time men have always been the pursuers. Yes they have evolved and most see woman as equals but when it comes to relationships they like to take the lead role on most occasions. Don’t get me wrong, men enjoy it when women take the initiative on occasion, but not for the majority of the relationship.
Truth of the matter is letting the man do the chasing usually brings out the best male qualities in him (at least for a while). He is more attentive, takes more responsibility for the relationship, is more affectionate, listens to you more, and takes more initiative to make sure the relationship grows.
So ladies, sit back and let him chase you for a while. If you need a few pointers on how to make him crazy for and desire only you, click here to check out this video…You will be happy you did.