This is an actual email from I am fed up with your lies and cheating, and all I can say is “Wow!”
You’re all nothing but whiny, sad little bitches! I’m the other woman and damn proud of it! I can get any guy I want!! I am single, bored, and YOUR MAN is the one chasing me and I’m just interested in sex, fun & $ and I have no idea who you are and I don’t care…I really don’t give a damn if he and I fucked because that’s all it is to me. Meaningless sex, a way to get my bills paid, gifts lavished on me and taken on trips and treated like the Queen I am while you the girlfriend or wifey is stuck home alone taking care of his stupid kids, cleaning up after him, washing his shit stained undies… You women are pathetic! You why your men cheat? You no longer satisfy them in the bedroom and you went from being their fantasy dream girl to their mother, and believe me, no sane guy is interested in dating his mother. I make him feel sexy, I excite him, I will fuck him at a moment’s notice and then am fine with him leaving to go back to his boring life with you!! I get him at his best.
I don’t bore him with money problems or problems with the kids, I don’t ask him to do stuff around my house or whine or complain or make him feel like less of a man the way you do. I don’t have to take care of him when he’s sick, we talk and laugh and actually ENJOY each other, you are the one who signed up to be his slave not me!! Your man feels defeated and just wants someone to talk to… someone to connect with temporarily so he can get away from the daily stresses and responsibilities that you have put upon him… all while never showing him any appreciation for his efforts. He feels unappreciated so he runs to someone like me who will build up his confidence again.
I am a friend to lend an ear. To listen to him, to make him feel like even if for a moment, that he is someone special. Most guys will never go off and admit these things or say this because they fear it’s not a “manly” thing to do, but this is definitely another reason why men cheat so they can find an escape to build themselves back up again after women like you’ve beat them down so badly. I pay attention to him and give him what he needs, you NAG!! Nobody wants to feel like shit and most people tend to respond more positively when they are addressed positively.
Sometimes there are just guys out there that are douche bags. They have a good woman at home but for some reason they still stray. I really could care less. You mean nothing to me, your kids even less. You are the one who committed to this asshole and stays with him not me!! Every man loves a strong and independent woman who he knows would leave him in a heartbeat if it came down to it, but once you have your man feeling too comfortable he’s no longer going to go out of his way to do things for you like he once did.
These men are just looking for someone fun, sexy, and drama free…. A quick escape with someone who could give them what they need, but at the same time won’t tie them down or nag them about stuff. A friend. A confidante. A sex Goddess. You are none of those things, I am all of them!! SUCKS TO BE YOU!!