Most people realize a woman’s brain is the most important body part when it comes to turning on the passion in a relationship. It’s much less common to find a person who knows the same thing is true about a man.
Yes, men can be interested in sex even when there is emotional tension in the relationship, but I’m talking about the aspects of the relationship that men have to work harder at. I’m talking about the non-sex parts that make up 95% of the joy and meaning both partners feel in a truly committed relationship. Relationship issues and emotions do affect that part of passion for men.
That’s right, men need to feel a certain way if you want them to “perform”. If you want him to be really deeply engaged in the relationship, you’ve got to pay attention to his mind and emotions.
But which emotions matter most to a man? It’s not the same stuff that matters the most to a woman.
I’ll tell you the answer. Before I do, I need to prepare you. It’s not what you would expect, and you might doubt the importance of it when I tell you. Remember that men experience relationships differently. As a result, the issue that matters most to men may strike you as petty or small.