In most relationships there are red flags that indicate something is wrong, do not turn a blind eye to these signs. Doing so can hinder your peace of mind, dignity, and your marriage. If your spouse cannot maintain basic etiquette and treatment that everyone deserves, then there is no point continuing and subjecting yourself to that sort of torture.
How you remedy the problems is up to you. Communication, counseling or therapy could bring about positive change. But if they don’t work drastic measures may be necessary. However, it is undeniable that you should not sit back and tolerate negative or even abusive behaviors that are occurring in your marriage. – C. Sky