The emotions behind intimate relationships can sweep you off your feet or wreak havoc on your soul. A woman can be swept away in love, or she can be broken by a lopsided relationship that tears her apart while she doesn’t even know the difference. If you are doing time in a match not made in heaven, it’s time to see the signs and get out.
There are many signs of a rotting relationship, but if one of these 4 happen to describe your situation, then you need to ditch him ASAP.
1. He’s lying: When your partner starts making excuses for spending time together, you no longer feel like a priority. They may feel guilty about lying and don’t really want to hurt you, but they continue to avoid seeing you. Making excuses or keeping secrets is the same as lying when their intention is to hide things that they know would hurt you. Lying might mean they don’t know how to tell you they are not ready for a serious relationship and want to take it slow. Or it could be a sign they are trying to end the relationship but are too much of a coward to tell you the truth.
2. Your man is emotionally elsewhere: We aren’t talking about daydreaming or occasional distractions. We are talking about a habitual drifting where it becomes obvious to you that your man’s mind is as far off as the clouds. The magic just isn’t happening anymore. You feel alone now when he’s sitting right next to you, but you keep saying it will pass.