It’s good to be picky about who you date. You don’t want to settle for just anyone because they’ll have you. It’s important to make sure you’re not too picky though, because you can really limit your chances of finding someone great. This article outlines 4 signs that you are too picky about who you date.
1. Your list of qualifications is pages long
It’s totally acceptable to have a list of requirements and deal breakers, but when that list becomes too long, you really start to limit your prospects. If your list is pages line, it’s time to go through it and cross off the ones that don’t matter as much. It’s easy to create a list of the ideal person, but no one is perfect, so you need to also be realistic. You’re not settling by shortening you’re list because the very important items will remain.
2. If someone doesn’t meet just one of the criteria, you brush them off
If you have a long list as mentioned above, and someone doesn’t meet just one of the criteria and you brush them off, you are being too picky. No one will ever meet every single item. It’s important to figure out if something is something you can look past or not. If you reject someone because they have sandy blond hair instead of bleach blond hair, you will miss out on meeting a lot of amazing people.
3. You won’t let friends set you up