Wouldn’t it be great if you could actually control the quality of men and relationships that come into your life? As amazing as that sounds, it’s not some impossible super-power to have, but an ability you can easily develop.
Just imagine what it would be like not to keep dating the same losers over and over, or waste any more of your time and energy over another toxic relationship.
It’s all possible – all you need to do is cultivate the right mental habits to make it happen.
#1: Make a Deliberate Effort to Find Mr. Right
I’d like you to do something for me – take a second to think about all the success you already have in your life. Ask yourself: how did you pull off all those goals you set out in the past, and how did you prepare for it?
The reason why I’m asking you is because everything you’ve achieved in your life didn’t just happen by accident.
In other words, it was pre-meditated. Almost everything that happens to us in the present is based on the choices we made in the past, whether we’re aware of it or not.
Think of a project you tackled at work or in your personal life. Chances are you mapped out your goals, then FOCUSED on a plan to make them happen.
This is why you need to make the same conscious effort when it comes to dating. If you’ve been experiencing lackluster results with guys, it’s possible that you’re not FOCUSING hard enough on what you really want.
And when you haven’t really envisioned a tangible scenario in your mind, you’ll end up with just about any man – and relationship – that won’t necessarily be right for you.
As a result, you’ll be dissatisfied and forever plagued with the feeling that something’s “lacking” in your life.
So, the key to enjoying a successful dating life is about FOCUSING on a clear, concise concept of your ideal man.
This is a CRUCIAL part of being truly happy with the results you end up with. Otherwise, not having a deliberate goal will send you down a road you don’t want to be on.
#2: Acknowledge What’s Holding You Back