“She don’t understand him like I do.”
You are having an affair with a married man. In order to justify your behavior you keep telling yourself these ridiculous lies. You’ve repeated these lies to yourself so often that you’ve started believing them. Well it’s time to come back to reality. Wanna know what we are talking about? Here are 7 ridiculous lies mistresses keep telling themselves:
I’m his true love
Yeah, we bet that’s what he told his wife when they got married and we also bet that’s what he told the mistresses before you and he’ll probably tell the ones that will come after you. By now he knows what women want and he will do anything to keep you. The only reason you feel you are his true love is because you don’t have any responsibilities together as a couple so everything feels great. You don’t have to pay the bills, mortgages, or take care of the kids. All you do is just meet, have a great time and everybody goes home happy.
Our relationship is different
Oh, your relationship is not like those other tawdry affairs people have. You have this deep connection that you have never felt before. He respects you and takes you places no other men have ever taken you. You would give your life for this man because he is worth it.
Well, newsflash baby girl. You are just the side chic…stop promoting yourself to wife status. If he respected you he wouldn’t be with you while he’s married. So how exactly is your relationship any different from other tawdry affairs? You are still doing what other women do with married men; sneaking around behind their wives’ backs.