Okay so you are seeing this guy…he seems really nice but you are not sure if he is in love with you or if he is an opportunist. How can you tell if a guy is in love with you? More importantly, how do you know if he is just an opportunist? During the initial stages of dating, it’s hard to tell but there are a few signs that will immediately tell you “this guy is using you”. We have highlighted some of them.
He is interested in your money
If the guy is in serious debt and he won’t accept responsibility for his financial problems, then he might be dating you for your money. He’ll tell you that his poor credit score is his ex’s fault or he is in debt because of another woman. He won’t tell you that he misused his money or spends more than he earns.
He also prefers that you wine and dine at expensive restaurants but he won’t offer to pay the bill. If you turn him down he throws a tantrum and makes you feel guilty about it. When you tell him you don’t have money, he suddenly remembers that he had some unfinished business somewhere and won’t be able to make it to your “cheap” date. And by the way, just because he is monetarily impaired, doesn’t mean that he can’t make a good husband or boyfriend. We don’t know about you but some women don’t mind if their men play the role of a stay at home husband while they play the role of breadwinners.
He always wants to meet your rich or influential friends