I met this guy. Really good looking. Great body. Nice job. Very funny. We went out on a couple of dates and finally one night we kissed. It was a little sloppy, perhaps with a little too much saliva but I didn’t think much of it. Then came the night when I felt I was ready to finally let him make love to me. Boy do I regret it. There was a lot of fumbling and it wasn’t because the lights were out and he couldn’t see. The entire session lasted about five minutes. The worst thing is that he seemed fine with everything. I was disappointed and I’m wondering if I should continue seeing this guy despite the fact that his sex game is wack.
A lot of women have been in a similar situation where a guy is everything they want but he leaves a lot to be desired in the sex department. When a woman discovers that a guy is wack in bed, the first thing that goes through her minds is “is this what I’ll have to live with for the rest of my life?”
So should you dump a guy if he’s wack in bed? The answer is yes…and no.
You shouldn’t dump him if…
You have known him for a very long time and you are really into each other. If you’ve connected emotionally and he treats you right, then he is worth sticking around for.
Before you start saying that we are crazy for thinking you should put up with bad sex, ask yourself one question…
Do you want to make things better? You don’t have to put up with bad sex if you can turn it into good sex.