Have you wondered to yourself what it takes to make your man love you forever? Let me impart some advice. There’s plenty of relationship counseling and self-help books out there, but if you just want some simple advice, allow me to explain.
A quality relationship that lasts will take real work and effort. Makeup and fancy clothes aren’t going to make someone love you. People have spent exorbitant amounts of money and time on relationship counseling to figure out what they are doing wrong. Sometimes, it’s as simple as trying too hard to make things work, or you’re just not with the right person. There is a lot of pressure to act a certain way or give into relationship activities that shouldn’t be rushed.
There are many times when a man will say that the reason a relationship ended is because the woman came on too strong. The best relationship advice that I can give is to take the time to get to know each other, but no one wants to be badgered with constant phone calls and messages. Early on, it’s easy to feel eager or even anxious, so much that these feelings make us want constant reassurance. When you give your relationship time apart, it allows for people to miss each other, and for deeper feelings to grow.
The next time you want to send a second message or call just ‘one more time,’ consider this advice and wait it out.
In relationship therapy, many couples in turmoil will talk about not having a lot in common or how they grew apart. We, as individuals, have different interests we might not share. Allowing your partner to enjoy these activities with their friends while exploring your interests is a great way to take part in things we like, allowing those we love to have their fun. You may not have done the same activity, but you’ll both have interesting stories to share.