Ladies, it must be frustrating to think you’ve finally found the one, only for you to find out he’s either taken or gay. Sucks right? But there’s no need to give up just yet because there are plenty of good single guys out there…you’re probably looking in the wrong place.
No, these guys are not single because there’s something wrong with them. They are single because just like you, they haven’t found “the one”.
They go out a lot. They meet plenty of women but none of them meet their standards. It’s not that their standards are too high…they simply don’t want to settle for less than they deserve.
Now that we’ve established there are good single men out there, it’s time we let the cat out of the bag and share with you the secret where good guys hang out.
Where do good, single guys hang out?
I know you expect us to give you answers like bars, the gym, coffee places, the beach, clubs and the likes but we know you’ve been to these places and you haven’t found any good men there; otherwise, if you did, you wouldn’t be here reading this. So here’s the deal:
It’s not that there aren’t any good men in these places…they are there. Problem is, they aren’t there looking for single women to form a long term relationship with them. So if you go to a bar, there’s a 90% chance that the men who are there are only there to have a good time and perhaps score a one night stand.
And another thing about going to these obvious places is that there are plenty of women there looking for good single men to start a long term relationship with. That’s a lot of competition and it won’t do your confidence any good. So here are a few places where you can find good men:
- Extracurricular classes
Don’t you just love guys who like learning new things? It says a lot about their personality, doesn’t it? The best way to meet a guy who likes learning and trying out new things is to join an extracurricular class like a cooking class, a martial arts class, an art class or whatever else you are interested in learning.
The good thing about meeting guys in these classes is you get to choose the type of guy you want to date. Let’s say you want to date a strong, physically fit guy who can protect you. The best place to find him is in a martial arts class. Sounds clever, right?
- Dating sites
Let’s start by saying that if you’ve had bad experiences trying to find love online, keep in mind that the rules keep changing every day. More and more women are finding love online. In fact, most dating sites almost accurately match women with men who have similar interests. Just make sure you follow all the rules to stay safe.
- Join a charity organization
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you hear someone is part of a charity group? That’s right; they are selfless and willing to make sacrifices to give back to the community. So if you are looking for a guy who isn’t selfish and would do anything for his family, then a volunteer group is the best place to find one. All you have to do is find a charity organization that tackles a problem your heart bleeds for.
- Business seminars and conferences
Looking for a guy who is hard working, ambitious and financially stable? Business seminars and conferences are great places to meet him. And just like joining the extracurricular classes, you can choose the type of guy you want to date. Want to meet a realtor? Attend real estate conferences and seminars.
Knowing where to find good guys is only half the battle. The biggest challenge is getting them to notice you and igniting a spark of chemistry between you. If you do it the wrong way, he might just see you as a friend, or worse, his mother. Imagine watching helplessly as the guy of your dreams walks off with another woman. The good news is that we can give you helpful tips to help you transform from a timid woman to a confident flirt in our next post. written by Jackie K.
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