Why He Chose The Boss Bitch Over You

You are the nicest woman any guy will ever meet. You are generous, you have your career on the right track, you are smart and your sense of style is over the top but despite your great qualities, your beau left you for Jackie. What irks you is that Jackie is such a bitch. She is so mean to guys. She treats them like trash but somehow they are always all over her like white on rice. What is it about her that makes men like her so much? Is it witchcraft? Well, we’ll share with you why Jackie gets all the guys despite the fact that she is a boss bitch.

The boss bitch doesn’t care

She doesn’t care what you think about her. She lives by one rule:

“If you don’t feed her or pay her bills your opinion doesn’t matter”.

You can’t put her down because her self-esteem is pretty high. Confidence is sexy and men like that. They want a woman who doesn’t need approval from other people to feel beautiful or successful.

Sweet girls on the other hand care too much about what other people think. She will almost always second guess her decisions because she is afraid of stepping on other people’s toes.

The boss bitch says it like it is

If a man pulls some shit she doesn’t like she will call him out on it. In fact, if a guy ever tries to mess with her she will handle him. If a guy is dating a boss bitch, he knows she isn’t the type he can easily take advantage of so he knows better than to try and manipulate her.

A boss bitch can’t be controlled

If a man tries to control her she will drop him like a sack of rocks. She doesn’t have time for men who need to control women in order to feel powerful. That whole dominate and control vibe isn’t for her. Men can’t play mind games on her either. She is the master at mind games and she figures out men who like playing games very early in the dating process.

A boss bitch is fun and edgy

Nothing holds her back when she wants to have fun. Remember that she doesn’t care what people think so her confidence is up there. If a guy challenges her to run track with him she will be down for it and she will give it her best. If he wants to go hiking she will put on her hiking boots and carry her own backpack. She isn’t afraid to break a nail or get her hair wet. She is open to experiencing new stuff.

A bad bitch is smart

She can talk about anything from uranium enrichment in North Korea to what Beyoncé wore in the recent MET gala. Although she knows she is smart, she knows better than to walk around rubbing it in people’s faces. That would just make her appear corny.

The boss bitch is a challenge

She is not about to give in to a guy that easily. She knows she is a prize to be won so he had better put his best foot forward and work for it. She’s probably been hurt before by a guy who she gave into easily. She learned her lesson and vowed to never get hurt again.

The boss bitch isn’t emotionally high maintenance

She doesn’t have trust issues and abandonment issues that easily get aggravated when a guy they like doesn’t give her enough deserved attention. She won’t call a guy and start crying over the phone asking him why he is no longer texts her five times a day like he used to or why he hasn’t liked her Facebook status yet he updated his status five minutes ago.

So, have you been doing the opposite of what bad bitches do? Now you know why he chose the boss bitch over you. By the way, we are not saying you should be mean to men in order to keep them wrapped around your little finger. We are simply saying if you are finding it difficult to keep a man, but that boss bitch you all love to hate does, then maybe it’s time you learned a thing or two from her.  written by Jackie K.