Why I Refuse To Get Married Until I’m At Least 30

If you are ever going to get married, do it when you are 30. Believe it or not, love is not a good reason to get married when you are still in your twenties. A majority of marriages fail because people get married when they are too young. Sometimes you find people getting married when they are as young as 18. Well, I don’t believe in marrying young and here’s why:

I am still getting to know myself

Most people in their 20s don’t really know themselves. They are still exploring what life is all about. The things I liked at 18 or even the guys I dated back then are way different from what I like now. My taste has changed. Right now, I cannot even think of dating the guys I used to date when I was 18 or do some of the things I did at 18.

I’m growing older and I’m only beginning to know myself. I’m slowly starting to learn what I like and what bothers me. I’m 23 so if I get married now, I know in ten years things will have changed a lot. My partner will have changed and I may not like the person he will have changed into or we might just grow apart.

I’m still spreading my wings

I should be exploring the world in my twenties and meeting new people. This is the time to make mistakes and learn from them. In fact, it’s the time I should be doing crazy things like jumping on a plane with my friends and flying to Vegas just because I can.